Apparently May is national "Share a Story Month" therefore, I have decided to share a story with you...
The year was 1990. My sister and I were attending a school located in a blighted neighborhood on the east side of Kansas City. The neighborhood we lived in at the time wasn't exactly teaming with kids and the kids we did know attended private schools. Being the only kids in the neighborhood needing transportation the school district didn't think it was necessary to send a bus to pick us up. Instead we were picked up daily by a city cab. Now, there are many stories I could tell you about our time spent on the taxi cab. From the variety of students we shared it with, to hiding parts of our lunch in the back to eat after school, or even about the time our driver got pulled over and cried as soon as the police officer was gone. None of those are as good as the one I have to share though...
Over the two year time period where cabs were our primary mode of transportation my sister and I had three drivers. The first driver was an older man named Leroy. I really don't remember much about Leroy. He was a nice grandpa type man. He didn't have many teeth, giving him that signature "mush mouth" look so many denture-less people have. I remember him giving us this photo of himself one day. It could have been the last day he drove us. Im not completely clear on the reason now.

Our second driver was a lanky middle aged man. I don't remember his name, honestly he didn't drive us all that long. Really, there are only two things I clearly remember about the man. First was the fact that he looked like "Marv" from Home Alone. Second was how quietly he cried after being pulled over.

Our third, and final driver was a man in his 50's named John Brownsburger (we lovingly called him variations of Hamburger, Brownbooger, etc). This is really where the story starts.
One morning my sister and I loaded in the cab. Alyson in the front, I in the back. Alyson was turned slightly in her seat leaning against the passenger door so we could talk (or more realistically finish fighting over who's turn it was to sit in the front seat). John pulled away from the curb and headed for our school. We had done this so many times. All of it. John was incredibly kind (from what I remember) and always put up with my sister and me (who, lets face it, at this point in our lives were just starting to really despise each other). This morning was different though, as John took the first turn to leave our neighborhood, Alysons weight shifted and that passenger door flew open.
I know what you are thinking at this moment, "WASNT SHE WEARING HER SEATBELT?!?!" -- Are you kidding me? It was 1990. There were seat-belt...but who really wore them? It wasn't state mandated like it is now!
The cab was still in motion when this all went down. Alyson somersaulted down into a grassy ditch on the side of the road. I remember watching her blond hair and pastel colored outfit fold over each other. John stopped the cab and the two of us (the two of us still remaining INSIDE the vehicle) got out to pick her up. She was crying and completely freaked out, but as far as we could see that was the extent of her injuries. After she was loaded back into the cab we turned and headed for the house.
I remember the lot of us standing on the brick front steps relaying the story to my mom. She held Alyson, and after making sure she was, in fact (physically) unscathed, told her she could stay home. (For the record what happens next was not one of my finest moments) I am not sure what came over me at this point, but I was not having this. I immediately told my mom that I should be able to stay home as well. After all, I had watched the whole thing happen. Alyson and I proceeded to cry and hang all over my mom (techniques now employed by my own kids). Eventually my mom made us BOTH go to school. I think about this day now and wonder why I wouldn't just let me sister take a much needed mental health day all those years ago. I don't think any permanent damage was done, but wow. Somehow she still speaks to me.
